In February, blogger Sasha Dichter called for a reboot of Valentines Day to Generosity Day. The response was good and to a lot of people, it made sense. In fact, I wrote to Sasha on the same day to tell him that myself and a group of a few other individuals had been planning for a generosity day in Uganda.
In one day however, it will be April Fools Day which in my view needs a reboot, even greater than valentines day. Why? We lie everyday, may be you do not, but the majority of the people do. We fix our way up or down – whichever direction you are taking, write spins in the newspapers and blogs, cheat in our marriages, lie to our kids while they do the same, cheat on exams, and whatever else falsehoods there’s is to do or that you are involved in. We do all this everyday that we do not need a special dayngazetted to lying or fooling around.
Instead, we need a day to set some records straight, a day in which people can come out and make amends with their families, reconcile with friends, confess their misdeeds et cetera. We need a Truth Day on April 01. Imagine if this were a day that became cultural, so that people would tell the truth and then they would receive back grace from those people to whom they confess. That this would become a day to receive forgiveness, healing and a break away from guilt and shame. A lot of people (and that may include you) are hurting with so much shame and guilt, yet as a people, if we so chose to, could help them by providing them a safe environment to get a break through and experience true freedom. A life of “authenticity, empathy, vulnerability, compassion, courage, connection” as taught by Dr. Brene Brown, is what we should all aim for.
Ladies and gentlemen, please join me in agitating for a Reboot of April a01 Fools Day to April 01 Truth Day. Please leave your comment below and share this post. Thank you.
